A few years ago, my son asked me why the newly planted trees around my office were tied to a couple of sticks. The harness around the trees were very sturdy and often left a mark on the trees. I told him that the young trees, without support, may break due to strong winds. I also said it looks painful for the trees to be "restricted". However, that's what I call "tough love".
Recently a few teenage patients came to see us for back pain, or simply, scoliosis. There are also adults who have the same problem, but it's sad to see young patients quietly develop this problem, which will surely affect the quality of their later life. Of course, acupuncture, massage, yoga, exercise, correcting harness, etc will help these young patients, but it would take time. In some severe cases, major surgeries are recommended as the last straw.
Many factors contribute to scoliosis. However, the lack of parental supervision on postures is one of the major. Parents nowadays are trying to provide the best they could: food, clothes, smart phones, computers, cars, you name it. However, parents' love is still not complete if you've never paid enough attention to how your children sit, stand, or walk. It's understandable that few teenagers want to hear anything, especially corrections from their parents. But you still have to say it and repeat until they correct it. When I tell my kids to "sit straight" or "tie your shoelaces", I meant to see immediate corrections. They know I am a “TOUGH DAD”!
Teenage patients never understand how much the tough love means to them until their parents have to shuttle them to doctors and pay for those expensive visits.
Parents, watch your kids! Kids, listen to your parents!
Frank He, L. Ac., QME, DAOM
Kindly edited by Désiré Desrosiers
Recently a few teenage patients came to see us for back pain, or simply, scoliosis. There are also adults who have the same problem, but it's sad to see young patients quietly develop this problem, which will surely affect the quality of their later life. Of course, acupuncture, massage, yoga, exercise, correcting harness, etc will help these young patients, but it would take time. In some severe cases, major surgeries are recommended as the last straw.
Many factors contribute to scoliosis. However, the lack of parental supervision on postures is one of the major. Parents nowadays are trying to provide the best they could: food, clothes, smart phones, computers, cars, you name it. However, parents' love is still not complete if you've never paid enough attention to how your children sit, stand, or walk. It's understandable that few teenagers want to hear anything, especially corrections from their parents. But you still have to say it and repeat until they correct it. When I tell my kids to "sit straight" or "tie your shoelaces", I meant to see immediate corrections. They know I am a “TOUGH DAD”!
Teenage patients never understand how much the tough love means to them until their parents have to shuttle them to doctors and pay for those expensive visits.
Parents, watch your kids! Kids, listen to your parents!
Frank He, L. Ac., QME, DAOM
Kindly edited by Désiré Desrosiers
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